So like, the worst possible thing happened: The girl that you had a crush on for ages… put you in the friend-zone
You did it all perfectly – the dinner, the gifts, the flowers… paid for, and planned out, down to the last detail
Then when you go to ask her out, she blows you off with some line that’s similar to these:
“I only think of you as a friend”
“You’re a really nice guy”
“I think of you as a brother”
“I don’t have that kind of feelings for you”
“I’m not interested – but let’s stay friends, ok?”
…
And how dare she?
She breaks your heart as easily as she swiped left, THEN has the gall to suggest that you stay friends?
So she wants access to your time, your expertise, your gifts… without giving in return?
She wants her cake and eat it too?
Channel That Friend-Zone Frustration… Constructively
Fine
If she’s going to use you like this, then you’re going to use her back
…
And you know what? You had plans – great plans for her
It was going to be a serious relationship – ending with marriage, kids, the white picket fence, and happily ever after…
The whole nine yards
But all that’s out the window now
You’re going to get her into bed, have your fun, then dump her unceremoniously – or just kick her out of bed
That’s all she deserves
…
And if that’s what you want to do, then that’s all well and good
Except you have no idea how to do so
If you did, you probably wouldn’t be friend-zoned in the first place
How To Get Out Of The Friend Zone, With PassiveGame
Luckily for you, there are ways to get out of the friend-zone
And even better? PassiveGame is probably the most perfect way of destroying the friend-zone – and here are the reasons why
It Gets Under Your Target’s Radar
Remember that you’ve shot your shot, and it totally airballed?
Your target’s guard is going to be up now
That means, if you try to flirt with her in person or over text, or to invite her to one-on-one hangouts, she’s just going to shoot it all down
BOOM, shut down!
That means, she’s not going to give you a chance to attract her… by normal means
But that’s totally fine, because you have ways other than normal means
Means like PassiveGame
PassiveGame is so low-key, that over time, even just hanging out with you, or having you on her social media, will make her curious about you – and attracted to you
You’re Using Her Friend-Zone To Make You Look Good
Think about it.
She rejected you, so it’s reasonable for her to cut you out of her life altogether
Instead, she’s keeping you in her social circle – why?
So she can continue to use you as a resource – for:
- The physical safety of having a guy around
- Letting her ask questions about classwork
- Driving her around
- Buying her food and drinks
- Carrying her stuff around
- Bitching to about guys who she’s actually dating and sleeping with
- Randomly texting and definitely receiving a response from fast, for an ego boost
To string you along and play with your heart, for something as trivial as an ego boost
You know what? Fuck that: She’s using you
And if she’s going to use you – you’re going to use her back
Conveniently for you, PassiveGame suits this purpose perfectly, as it treats each of your social contacts as a resource
And cute girls like the girl who friend-zoned you?
They are the most important and versatile resource – you can:
- Use her to make other cute girls in your group more attracted to you
- Feature her in your outing photos, to make more people (including cute girls) want to come to your outings
- Even have her help you meet other cute girls – to make the other girls curious about you, and make her jealous at the same time
- Use her to meet her cute female friends (or her cousins or sisters), and… you get the idea
And that’s just scratching the surface – when you stop thinking as the person who got friendzoned, and start thinking like the person doing the friendzoning – suddenly a world of possibility opens up to you
Your Attention Isn’t On Her
The problem with other ways of getting out of the friend zone, is that your focus is still on your target
This means that your self-esteem is still fluctuating depending on her reaction to you – which means you are putting your life on hold for her – even when she’s already turned you down
PassiveGame works differently: Your attention is on building a system that makes girls attracted to you – and in that system, there will be other cute girls, cool people, and people who are valuable in other ways
And there will be more people over time, and new people constantly
So, you will not have the luxury of oneitis, of staying fixated on she who friendzoned you
This will make you more productive in everyday life, help you stay healthy and sane, and make you more confident and relaxed with your target – which is how to get out of the friend zone
Lower Stakes – You’re Not In A Rush
The power of PassiveGame lies in the fact that you are using the social value of your social circle to make yourself more attractive
This relies on you befriending cute girls and high value people, organising events, your target seeing event photos, your target attending your events, and your target staying in your social circle
All of these things take time, so if you absolutely need to make a girl fall in love with you before the clock strikes midnight a few days from now, PassiveGame might not be the best option
Luckily (or unluckily) for you, you’ve already been friend-zoned, and there’s no real rush to make anything happen
So, you have all the time in the world to build your PassiveGame system – even from scratch
And by building your social system properly, it is only a matter of time before you get out of the friendzone
Find Out More
Want to learn more about how to get out of the friend zone via PassiveGame? Find out here.
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